• Writings by Dr. Ashley

    I spent years in school immersed in the study of how our minds, bodies, and spirits connect. Rather than letting my writings sit in a folder, I’ve taken my essays on transpersonal psychology, psychophysiology, and neurofeedback and turned them into these blog posts.

    This is my academic journey shared one reflection at a time. Bridging the gap between rigorous study and the personal insights that make sense of the human experience.

When Boundaries Are Not So Simple in Therapy

Therapy boundaries are meant to protect clients, but real life is not always simple. What happens when a therapist sees a client in public, receives a social media request, or navigates cultural expectations around warmth and connection? This post explores dual relationships, confidentiality, and why ethical therapy needs both clear boundaries and trauma-informed flexibility.

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When Rigid Boundaries Fail Our Clients

My therapist hugged me, mentored me, and broke the "rules" and it healed me. This post explores the controversial topic of Dual Relationships in therapy. I discuss why I advocate for "Trauma-Informed Flexibility" over rigid boundaries, and how I navigate the tension between professional ethics and human connection.

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The Compass and the Rulebook being a Healer

In my culture, care looks like a warm meal. In clinical practice, that can look like a boundary violation. This post explores the nuanced difference between a Code of Ethics (our values) and a Code of Conduct (our rules), and how I navigate the tension between cultural identity and professional standards.

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